Scratches, bruises and sucks after sex – decoration or inconvenience?.
In a fit of passion, partners can bite each other or scratch, often this happens by chance. But it happens that the suction create. Is it worth doing this, is such behavior appropriate and how to avoid such acts in relation to yourself.
Extra marks
In adolescence, the suction could be considered something very important. He testified that a person has a partner, and it was “cool”. Not everyone can boast of relationships during this period, so the marks are considered The reason for pride.
In youth, men with contentment on the beach show their backs with scratches. And this Packs attention All women around. They wonder: “Is he really so cool in bed?”. And this is also a reason for pride.
But when people get older, any marks only interfere. It is inconvenient to come to work with them, this It looks vulgar and “childish”.
Why put suction
There are times when traces on the body arise by accident. This is especially characteristic of people with thin skin. They have any touch of bruises.
But sometimes partners in this way leave a “label”. She indicates that a person belongs only to them. This Manifestation of possessiveness and egoism. An example of this behavior is a suction from a mistress. Thus, she tries to destroy the man’s family, does everything to so that the wife suspects the betrayal.
Another example is the suction is placed on the stomach or chest so that it can be seen in the mirror. So that he reminds of the past evening. This is not the best way to leave memory, but it is used.
Where you can and cannot leave traces
If you still want to play games with traces, it is important to choose the right places. For example, many BDSM experiments leave marks. And therefore, a dialogue occurs in front of the session, where it is determined which parts of the body can be used.
- Many people refuse to traces of wrists. Hands are visible in any clothing, so leather, not metal handcuffs are bought so often.
- Avoid traces on the neck. In the neckline of a shirt or blouse, traces are also visible, and this attracts excess attention.
- Traces of buttocks or back less noticeable. And the thigh area is often hidden under clothes. They are experimenting with them.
Bolts, bruises and scratches are not dangerous for health. But they look too noticeable and not always appropriate.
How to remove traces from sex experiments
There are no magical means from scratches and suction. You can reduce them by applying ice to the place of exposure immediately after the injury. But this does not always succeed, in a fit of passion is not up to medical procedures.
The pharmacy sells an ointment “Bodyaga”, it helps to reduce bruises. It will have to use it for 2-3 days in a row. But the healing process will be reduced by at least 2 times.
To disguise traces, you need a foundation. But with its help to hide everything is completely difficult.
How to prevent the appearance of marks on the skin
It is important to always discuss with a partner Bed etiquette. It is important to immediately indicate that marks are not acceptable if their presence leads to problems in life. Of course, it’s hard to guess that the sexual partner will scratch. But if this happens, it is important to discuss so that this does not happen again.
Revenge in this case is not appropriate. It’s easy to leave a mark on another person, but only this will not stop the series of such phenomena. And next time a partner may want to take revenge. As a result, the traces will be constantly.
Using accessories for BDSM, it is important to choose soft devices that do not damage the skin, do not leave bruises. Leather or satin handcuffs, leather phologists are designed to realize fantasies, but without traces.