Safe sex for one night.
He is a pretty bartender, you recently survived the parting. He is a mysterious stranger who "seems OK", You are also breathtaking. "Why and yes?" – You say frivolously and go to him "In rooms" or to the club toilet. Wait, stop! First read our article about safe sex without obligation to approach this flesh of warned and armed.
First, weigh the pros and cons of. Here are what delights you can encounter as a result of such an adventure:
Pros of sex for one night
1. You can shake old people to the joy of your hormones
According to research, we all react perfectly to sexual novelty. In men, a member rises faster on a fresh partner. And women are terrible to imagine, not only easier to excite, but also easier to pregnant as a result of connections with mysterious strangers. Our vivid sensations is the guilt – the hormone dopamine, which is more than stand out in response to a new stimulus. By the way, a hormone useful for the body.
2. Rejuvenation and other miracles
If you are lucky with a mysterious bartender, then sex will turn out not only exciting novelty, but also simply as a quality deciduous in quality. Decent sex is very good for health. Regular sexual discharge makes menstruation less painful, improves mood, promotes the intake of oxygen into the brain, strengthens the immunity.
3. No headache!
You will receive all the buns listed above without dubious bonuses in the form of clarification of relationships, boring trips to mom and other red tape. Convenient, is it not true? However, not everything is so rosy. Sometimes a pleasant adventure can turn into an annoying and even tragic history.
What is fraught with sex for one night
1. Disappointment!
This is the softest possible consequences. Not always spontaneous sex captures a whirlwind of passions. Sometimes promising experience turns out to be simple "Vzhik -uzhik – and home". There may be a lot of reasons: lack of deep feelings, sexual incompatibility, "Woodenness" partner. Think for yourself what is the likelihood of a bundle neighbor will turn out to be a good lover, despite the fact that few of modern millennials are able to find a clitoris? The most calm will survive dubious random sex indifferently. The most sensitive and Victorian will have an ugly sediment with a sense of their "dirt and use".
2. Violence (God forbid)
Unfortunately, it happens. It is especially often if your dishonest partner thinks that you are drunk, which means, "Ready for everything" or "Do not remember anything". We live in a country where women from hand are poorly protected from such crimes. Therefore, especially ugly individuals can be hunted by such actually impunity.
3. Shameful sores
Whatever the charm of your new acquaintance, this does not guarantee his negative HIV status. Especially when you consider that in our country an epidemic of HIV. Alas and ah!
And now, now with strangers – no -no?
We will not be bores: in life there is everything. Wolves to be afraid – do not go to the forest, who does not risk, he does not drink champagne…Yes, yes, we are aware of our gambling. What if this experience develops into love for life? Or, in any case, it will become one of the most funny adventures that you can tell grandchildren about a cup of brandy about?
If you allow the possibility of such an episode in your life, you should prepare for it. After all, if you take risks, then it is thoughtful. Do not worry, we will give a few valuable recommendations.
Safe sex rules for one night
1. Always have condoms with you. And a jar of lubrication
If you have already discovered a lover or lover of night adventures, be always ready. Carry condoms with you, latex napkins and a small bottle of a lubricant on a water or silicone base.
"Condoms are still okay, but why grease? What, maniac, carry a lubricant with you?" – you ask.
Oh no! It’s not about maneakies at all. The fact is that natural lubrication is not always and not every time produced in sufficient quantities even if you or your partner are terribly excited. What can we say about the situation when a stranger is nearby and everyone is nervous. Insufficient lubrication can lead to excessive friction during penetration and a condom break. One such error can lead to an unscheduled pregnancy or an ugly disease that will have to be treated for a long time and hard.
2. Understand how different diseases are transmitted
A significant number of infections are transmitted through almost any sexual practice. Viruses and bacteria can be contained in pre -ejaculate, vaginal lubricant, as well as on the fingers and other parts of the body that came into contact with these liquids. Therefore, unprotected oral sex and even unprotected mutual masturbation are not a panacea from HIV, herpes and other consequences that you do not want to understand. Any contact with the genitals should only occur through the barrier: a condom or a latex napkin.
3. Never go to persuasion to have one -time sex without protection
No-kog-yes, hear? Even if he is hellish sex. Even if it is crazy. Even if you haven’t had sex for a year. Never. The consequences of such a rash act may have to get out of your life. The exception is only cases when a partner showed you a sexual health certificate. In the world, this is how so far happens from hand rarely.
4. Do not have sex with a person who cannot answer a clear "Yes"
Of course, Koitus is a little "Under the chaf" After a glass of wine, this is a classic of the genre. However, remember that if a person is poorly on his feet, then he cannot give a conscious consent to sex. And interacting with him despite this means committing a serious crime. This crime is called rape. Do not do it this way.
5. Especially closely follow whether you are violating the bodily boundaries of the new partner
We all have their own unique ideas about how we can do with us, and how it is possible. Some are delighted with anal sex, others do not digest. Someone loves slaps and light strangulation, for others this is a horror-uzhas. When you are dealing with a stranger, all these subtleties are unknown to you. Therefore, it is important to ask him about the consent in the process:
– Can I make you cunnilingus? You ok, if I enter from behind? How do you look at my finger near your prostate?
6. Do not have sex with a person who shows a toxic masculine behavior model
If the potential partner himself looks like a person who will take you without question "unceremoniously", Beware of him. If you are excited by terrible brutals and others "ugly boys", Better play this game with a trusted person. Otherwise, they can do what it will be very painful about with you. Beware.