What is fisting? It is safe?.
It is believed that fisting is included in the BDSM category and, in fact, this is an act of introduction of the whole hand, to the wrist or forearm, in the vagina or rectum. This is actually done very simply if you press fingers tightly to each other with a stretched palm. When the hand gets inside, you can squeeze your palm into a fist or move your fingers.
Fisting can be done alone during masturbation, or during sex with a partner, to get unique sensations.
Fisting is safe?
If everything is done correctly, then fisting can be safe and pleasant to diversify sexual life. However, you must definitely make sure that you do not cause harm or injury to the body with your actions. Here’s how to do fisting safely and with pleasure:
Do everything slowly. It is very important to introduce the hand and wrist slowly, both in the vagina and in the rectum. Moving quickly, you can cause your partner discomfort or even severe pain. In addition, sharp movements can damage delicate vaginal or anal skin.
Use a lot of lubrication. It is better to use water -based lubricant, but silicone can also be used. Do not even try to do fisting without additional lubrication, otherwise you are guaranteed to bring discomfort to your partner, and you can even damage its insides.
Do not “pump up” air. During fisting, do not make such movements that will drive in the inside of the vagina or anus air. It is very dangerous and can lead to disease and even death.
Give more time warming up and prelude. When a woman is completely excited, her vagina relaxes, which allows you to introduce large objects into it.
If the partner hurts, stop!
Anus fisting
Vaginal fisting is much safer than fisting anus. The vaginas are very elastic and created in order to stretch, and are able to accommodate large objects, because with their help the child is born. The baby’s head is much larger than your fist, so you can be sure that the fisting of the vagina is absolutely normal, and after such classes the vagina will return to its original size and shape.
But the rectum is not intended for placing in it such large objects as a fist. Even if you use a lot of lubrication, the fisting of the rectum can cause pain, lead to ruptures and bleeding. Constant rectal fisting can change the size and shape of the anus, which will lead to unpleasant consequences like a feces incontinence.
How to make anal fisting safe
While anal fisting is not considered "safe" sexual activity, there are some things that you can do to protect yourself.
Start small. Use anal sex toys, develop anus, and only then go to fisting.
Come up with a stop-word. Agree with a partner that if it hurts you very much, one word will force him to stop.
Cut the nails. There should not be dirt under the nails – this is a mandatory rule. Check that there are no sharp corners or burrs on the nails.
Latex gloves can be used so as not to infection into the anus.
Never use lubricants with anesthetics that cool and anesthetize. You must completely feel your body!