Something about anal sex.
What is anal sex?
Sexual intercourse between the two partners, when a penis or phalloimitator is introduced into the anus, is called – anal.
This is how sometimes they speak about anal sex. But what about it is that almost every man wants to give pleasure to himself and his partner through this path?
In the 21st century, the century of sexual emancipation, the theme of anal sex is either a taboo, or they talk about it with undisguised squeamishness, considering the destiny of dirty porn actresses. But in fact, anal sex can bring no less diversity to the bed of partners. And no less pleasure than from ordinary vaginal sex or various oral caresses, because the anus differs in structure from the woman’s vagina. Therefore, although the process of anal sex itself is similar to the usual, you need to know some things and nuances.
We all know why the anus is actually intended (from a physiological point of view). But in sex, of course, this hole plays a different role.
From different statistical data, love couples often have this type of sex. Thus, they try to diversify their intimate life. A large number of nerve endings are located in the rectum, and their proper stimulation causes a bright pleasure that looks like an orgasm.
In some girls, this erotic zone is closer to the neck of the uterus. In the area of the prostate gland – in men. Therefore, lovers of anal penetration are both among heterosexual and homosexual couples.
But sometimes partners consider it necessary for medical purposes, especially for the stronger sex. Many male problems are solved with the help of prostate massage.
The point of view of a significant part of people in relation to anal sex, to study or categorically not, they diverge. Much depends on the initial experience.
Men like to have anal sex with girls for several reasons (there may be others):
- The anus is very narrow compared to the vagina, and therefore “crowns” gives more pleasure.
- It’s unusual. Here we can do without explanation.
One thing, men like. And women? On the part of women, the answer to this question is very controversial. Someone really loves anal sex, someone does it just for the pleasure of a partner, and someone categorically does not accept this method of enjoyment.
- The reason why many couples avoid the practice of anal sex is disgust.
Moreover, from the dirty, in the literal sense of the word, can twist both the woman and the man. Fear has big eyes. Girls are afraid to die of shame, imagining that after immersing the penis in the anus, he will come out stained. Of course, embarrassment can occur. In order to avoid this incident, sexologists advise going to the toilet a few hours before anal intercourse.
After a while, the girl can relax, because the penis is not introduced into the rectum, but into the inner sphincter, 12-15 centimeters long. Namely, the sphincter provides the retention of feces in the rectum.
- Some women, due to traditions and education, compare this type of sex with humiliation. A psychological obstacle appears that the partner must be rethought and overcome if she wants to give colorful intimate relationships.
Fear of pain
Frequent misconception, especially firmly sown in the heads of young girls – banal fear of physical pain. This fear has reason. The anus is by nature not intended for sexual intercourse. And of course, pain can take place if the partner does not work hard to prepare a woman for intercourse. This is a very important condition.
How to get outstanding pleasure from anal sex?
First of all, we must talk about if such an action is acceptable in their intimate relationships. If so, then both partners need to prepare.
- Cleaning enema
In fact, not one hundred percent of the thing. If on the day of the upcoming anal act it is not easy to eat and empty the intestines, then it is quite possible to do without it, subject to the mandatory use of the condom. But for a sense of confidence and comfort before the first act, it is better to clean the body.
- Thorough hygiene
The most pleasant smell is only in clean skin. To do this, take a shower. Rinse the crotch and a rectal hole in the moderately cool water with special gels for intimate hygiene. Anus after that should be a little greased with fat cream. Delicate skin should be prepared for active actions.
- Training and massage
Knead the anal ring with a finger greased with fat cream. This should be done tenderly and leisurely. Such massage gives a lot of pleasure. And it can be performed by a caring partner. Massage can become part of an ordinary prelude, this will allow a woman to get used to the feeling that her anus is part of a love game.
As for training, anal plug and anal balls will be very useful. Which you can buy in any sex shop. First you should choose toys of the minimum size. The ass should gradually get used to the penetration and feeling of filling from the outside. You can try to sit, walk with objects inside. This will also become a very interesting experience.
- View video
Often at the most crucial moment the girl has a feeling of stiffness and, possibly, even some kind of fear. To avoid such a situation, you just need to watch a few videos where experienced partners are happy to engage in anal. Getting used to such a picture, it will be easier for a lady to get to the matter.
- Moisturization and lubrication
Before you start sexual intercourse, it is necessary to use lubricants (grease). This miracle tool can greatly help you and your partner. Lubricanta anal do not spoil!
Relax the hole. If you are too tense, nothing will come of it. The muscles will be compressed and will become an obstacle to the partner’s member enters the member.
The strong floor should remember that real life is not a porn movie. The anal hole is not as wide as the vagina and her beloved woman cannot accept the male instrument in the anus, with the same ease as in the vagina.
Help your partner with your fingers. Expand the anus a little before penetration, at the same time let it get used to it a little. Do not come too sharply. No need to poke a member with all the dope in the anus and make active motor movements at first. Your partner should get used to sensations, and her muscles are as relaxed as possible for further pleasure and comfort.
Anal sex does not tolerate rush, everything needs to be done gently and gradually.
- Protection means.
It is impossible to get pregnant from unprotected anal sex. The risk is present if the remnants of the ejaculate fall into the vagina, which can be eliminated after the act. In addition, if the partner is constant, there is practically no risk of venereal diseases. But the condom is required, since the mucous membrane of the rectum is very tender, and the penis can damage it.
Now let’s talk about the compatibility of anal sex with other types of sexual pleasure. If you immediately go to the classics after anal, then you should be careful: bacteria live in a person that are not compatible with the vaginal flora. Hence the thrush, bacterial vaginosis and other troubles may occur. Before the transition after anal sex to oral, it is also worth taking hygienic procedures.
Remember that anal sex without warning is impossible! Both partners must necessarily agree on this on the shore, otherwise improvisation will be fraught with consequences.
Knowing of limits
Anal sex is really pleasant. Many women easily reach orgasm with such an act. Some argue that the anal orgasm is brighter and longer than the vaginal. But still, do not do it very often. Experts recommend doing this no more than once every 10 days in order to keep the sphincter muscles strong.
No matter how good the sensations from anal sex, there are pros and cons of. By the way, minuses, according to doctors, more.
The disadvantages of anal sex
In the absence of lubrication, the mucous membrane of the skin of the anus is disturbed. Inflammation of the lower part of the rectum occurs. But if there are cracks or seals there, do not proceed to erotic classes.
There is a threat of sphincter and fecal incontinence. This is more dangerous for men, since girls have more elastic muscles.
After the penis is introduced into the anal passage, in no case should you go into the vagina so that there is no infection of the genitourinary system. Use the protection tool or visit the bathroom more. The same intestinal microorganisms are harmful for the urethra.
During intercourse, you can get sexually transmitted diseases if the cohabitants are little familiar. Therefore, here you have to be careful in choosing a partner.
Various gastrointestinal disorders can also be the result of such sexual intercourse.
Pros of anal sex
There are women who have not experienced orgasm during their lives. According to sexologists, they can reach it with anal sex. He is an expression of the highest confidence in his lover and the duration of this action is much greater than in classical sex.
As you can see, with such a meager list of positive points, first think about whether it is worth starting. But no matter what arguments appear in favor of anal sex, it is worth learning to engage in it competently. Then new sensations and magical emotions will no doubt guarantee you.